A Few of NotaBLe AsseGAFF

Imam Iben Obeed-Allah ASSEGAF...who write alot of Islamic books and Arabic literature

HABIB MUHAMMAD NAJIB BIN TOHA ASSEGAF

HabIB MOHAMMED BIN ABDULRAHMAN ASSEGAF

Habib TAWFIQ BIN ABDUL QADER BIN HUSSEIN BIN SEGAF ASSEGAF

Habib AHMAD BIN ABDURRAHMAN ASSEGAF

Habib ABDUL QADER BIN AHMAD ASSEGAF

Habib MUHAMMAD BIN HADI ASSEGAF

Habib ABDUL QADER BIN QUTHBAN ASSEGAF

Habib ABU BAKAR BIN MUHAMMAD ASSEGAF (GERSIK)
Habib ABDEL QADER BIN HUSSEIN BIN SEGAF ASSEGAFF

Tribute to my ummi....

Tomorrow will be yr birthday(12th OCT)....

umi......

i dedicated this beautiful poem for u......

For all the times you have been there From the day that I was born You gave me the courage You kept me safe and warm You taught me to be faithful So loving and so true Whenever I am lonely, Mom My thoughts come back to you Even when I am with you I know how proud I am To have you as my mother It was part of God's great plan You call just to say hello Send me notes to say you care And when we get together Special moments we can share. بحبك يا امــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــى

UMI...

thank Q so much 4 everything, since the day that i was born, u alwayz be beside me through thick and thin, your never changing and everlasting love is incomparable, shining from yr heart and warm me everyday,

really sorry for all tears and heartache.

UMI.....

i cant buy u costly gift, precious gemstone, jewelery, and imported silk,

i cant cook u mouthwatering delicacy,

i cant take u to a vacation,

coz i realize that whatever i give to u,

it is incomparable to what u've gave to me,

u actually gave me much,much more.

UMI.....

accept my purest, warmest and sweetest love,

gathered from the garden of my heart,

tq so much for much for yr understanding my tears,

tq so much for soothing my disappointments,

tq so much for calming all my tears.

UMI.....

U're truly the biggest gift of ALLAH to me,

U hold me 9 month,

U feed me from yr milk and blood,

U guide, secure and teach me,

No woman can take yr place,

Praise be to ALLAH coz bless me with this tenderhearted woman.

UMI.....

HappY bRIthDay to u, my dearest umi.........

ALLAH, bless this special umi,

ALLAH, bless everyday of her life,

ALLAH, guide her steps,

ALLAH, place her beside the last Prophet.

LOve u wit all of my heart.

انت في قلبي دأيما

بحبك يا امــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــى

p/s dah lme xupdate blog...

mls n xder mood.....

poem taken from www.ellenbailey.com

exhausted by 2 days camp.........

Thanks GOD......finally....dpat gak blik ump yg isolated nie.....ltih nyer...xleh nk ckp.....words failed to describe it lah....skit hbs tbuh2 nie...rmbt2 sumer dh bsuk2 n brmyk2 sbb xshmpoo byk ari(trluper bwk shmpoo).....kulit lak cm org kne campak sbb byk bntk2 merah.....byk sgt nymuk....xkesah r...aslkn xkne pyakit......urat2 nie sumer dh tegng.....pimple pun dh naek kat muker nie..asyik kne tgur jer...ader lak yg ckp ak akn mati bcoz of d pimple....doesnt make sense pun....1st nite kat sne..ak cm xleh tdo...sbb xleh nk lelapkn mate,trngt kat mcm2 kot then katil die lak cm pelik jer....actually ak tkot jtuh ....d next day...mse sesi crmah.....stat lah ngntok thap critical smpai last skli trtido gak tp yg pling ak xleh luperkn..mse nkmndi..pnyer lah ssh sgt,can u all imagine x...dndng toilet 2 dr bamboo..then xrapat lak n then yg pling truk,ader bamboo yg patah2...cm ner nk mndi...xprnh ak jmper toilet cm 2 kat mne2 camp yg ak pg(x demand tp nk share jer)....adui2,xkesah r mnder dh lpas.......tp aper yg pntng skang nie....ak dh blik kat ump.....leh mndi dgn puas2 nyer(sne xleh mndi sbb tnds kat sne xmcm tnds,xder privacy lnsng)....dh leh rhat.....tp yg skit kpaler nyer...esk test mechnic.....xstdy pun lg....cm ner nie.....dh lar subjct 2....bapakk tough....ahhh....xkesah r sumer 2....sbb skang nie ak dh fikir nk blik..nk shoppng dgn kwn2...hangout wit them........shoppng wit my heart(my umi) .....nk jln2 dgn famili.....wanna get a new hair cut.....nk g facial(muker dh brbntk)......i'll pray so ak leh buat sumer 2....cant wait to do all dat thing........adui2........nk rhat sgt2 nie.....above all thng....praised be to ALLAH....sbb ak slamt g n blik..nothng bad happend....i got a new experiance....xprnah pun g camp mse bln poser....but tq so much GOD.......tq so much 4 everything.......

4 WIVES??

Once upon a time there was a rich King who had four wives. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to the finest of delicacies. He gave her nothing but the best.

He also loved the 3rd wife very much and was always showing her off to neighboring kingdoms. However, he feared that one day she would leave him for another.He also loved his 2nd wife. She was his confident and was always kind, considerate and patient with him. Whenever the King faced a problem, he could confide in her, and she would help him get through the difficult times.

The King's 1st wife was a very loyal partner and had made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and kingdom. However, he did not love the first wife. Although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her!
One day, the King fell ill and he knew his time was short. He thought of his luxurious life and wondered, "I now have four wives with me, but when I die, I'll be all alone."

Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I have loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!", replied the 4th wife, and she walked away without another word. Her answer cut like a sharp knife right into his heart.The sad King then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No! ", replied the 3rd wife. "Life is too good! When you die, I'm going to remarry!" His heart sank and turned cold.

He then asked the 2nd wife, "I have always turned to you for help and you've always been there for me. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!", replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave." Her answer struck him like a bolt of lightning, and the King was devastated.Then a voice called out: "I'll go with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." The King looked up, and there was his first wife. She was very skinny as she suffered from malnutrition and neglect. Greatly grieved, the King said, "I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!"

In truth, we all have the 4 wives in our lives:

1-Our 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it will leave us when we die.

3- Our 3rd wife is our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, it will all go to others.

2- Our 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how much they have been there for us, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.

And our 1st wife is

4-our Soul. Often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the world. However, our Soul is the only thing that will follow us wherever we go. Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of us that will follow us to the throne of God and continue with us throughout Eternity.

SaHUr....

Assalamualaikum wr wb.

Alhamdulillah, Ramadhan is here again and we are lucky to be given the opportunity to take full advantage of the rewards awaiting us in this holy month.

I would like to share with all muslim around the world about the advantages of sahur. I guess everybody is aware on the Sunnah and have heard or read about hadith on sahur. Some people feel very reluctant to wake up a bit earlier before fajr and would prefer to have longer sleep. They choose to eat before they sleep. Some feel that they can handle the hunger and thirst without the need to wake up for sahur. However, sadly, they fail to realise that sahur has more benefit than simply to prevent hunger and thirst. It is indeed essential that we view fasting and other ibadah beyond their physical benefit.

According to Ibn Hajar, sahur is blessed because of the following reasons:
1. It will make us practise the Sunnah of the Prophet PBUH.
2. It will differentiate our fasting from the ahlul kitab. Ahlul kitab do not wake up for sahur.
3. It will better prepare our body to do more ibadah.
4. It will increase our sincerity (ikhlas) in ibadah.
5. It will stop and reduce our anger which always occurs during fasting.
6. The time that we are encouraged to sahur is the special time for our doa to be granted by Allah.
7. It is an opportunity for us to be closer to Allah as it is during the final third of the night.

Look at how generous Allah SWT is! He rewards us just for waking up and eating. Subhanallah!

Let’s try our best to make this Ramadan a meaningful time in our lives and hopefully it will be a better Ramadan than the previous Ramadan.

Wassalam.

expoliates your Skin........

Body scrubs are not just to make your skin look fresh, to make your tan last longer or to make your skin smoother and less prone to acne, it is also to help make you healthier.

There are different types of body scrubs.

Sea Salt

Sugar

A combination of Sugar & Sea Salt

Oatmeal

Herbal

The purpose of the sugar, salt, herbs or whatever else may be in the scrub is for exfoliation. However, after doing research, I found that it is not just the exfoliation that is important but also the stimulation to your

body.

Caffeine is known to be excellent for reducing varicose veins and cellulite.

Cocoa butter is known to be excellent for reducing stretch marks.

Natural oils and butters are filled with healing agents, moisture and nutrients.

To use a body scrub:

Rub onto wet skin in a circular motion. Rinse off.

The circular motion is very important.

Body scrubs are known to stimulate the lymph glands.

What do the lymph glands do?

The lymph glands have vessels, organs and passageways to move the lymph throughout the body is necessary to a strong immune system. The only way that lymph is moved around the body is through movement and exercise.
Such stimulation enables the lymph system to release the toxins and waste products that natually occur within the lymph system. Lymph glands can become clogged with waste when a person does not move around enough to stimulate the lymph glands. Methods to stimulate the lymph glands include regular exercise, massage and skin treatments that promote circulation through massaging action.

Rub scrub onto skin in a circular motion - when the layer of dead skin cells is removed, the skin's excretion process is enabled to carry off waste and toxic accumulations from the lymph glands and sweat glands more efficiently. This is very important!

Body scrubs are excellent for the following uses

Deep cleanse

Detoxify

Soften, Smooth and Moisturize Skin

Use on dry patches of skin before tanning or applying a self tanner

Warning

The oils in scrubs may cause the bathtub and/or your feet to become slippery.

BEAuty TipS.....

Cleansing

You might be well-informed that cleansing the skin, you can get a healthy and glowing texture of it. It is a wonderful process through which you can add glow to your skin. The process helps in removing dirt and oil from the skin. Every day, after coming back from outside, apply this process.

Exfoliating

Exfoliation wipes off dead skin cells from the skin. You have to do it with gentle hand. Only twice a week, focus on this beauty care treatment.

Moisturizing

For a healthy and hydrated skin, moisturizing is so important. You can choose a water based moisturizer if your skin is oily. Oil based formula is good for dry skin type women. Every night it should be applied

Sunscreen

Sunscreen protection is very crucial for your skin. A good sunscreen lotion makes the skin soft and smooth. The main purpose of the product is to prevent the skin from sun damage. Apply SPF 15 or SPF 20 or SPF 30 if you want to protect the skin from the harsh effects of the sun.

Water solution

Drink around 8 to 9 glasses of water daily. It hydrates the whole body and adds glow and glamor to the skin.

Proper sleep

Regular sleep gives the skin healthy texture. At least 7 to 8 hours of sleep is necessary for all. In addition, don't take alcohol or cigarette if you want to enjoy a healthy skin.

extracted out from beautytipshub.com......

GOrgeous of all time

tO my best frIEnd....

This is for the greatest person
that I have ever known.
Being away from you for so long
I am feeling so alone.
With you I am so happy
you keep my heart content.
But I had to be a volunteer -
so off to England I went.
That is where I found my heart
and how I feel for you.
I try so hard to deny this feeling
and I don't know what to do.
I said that I would never again
let someone take my heart.
And here I'm sitting wanting you
and hate that we're apart.
Everyday you are in my thoughts,
every night you're in my dreams.
I can't believe what's happening,
is this really what it seems?
I know you're only wanting
to be the best of friends,
but I am asking you sincerely
if it's your rule you'll bend.
To take a chance to know me
to let me share it all.
And maybe one day very soon
for me one day you'll fall.
Our friendship we now have
is something that I'd miss
but maybe once we let go
we will find eternal bliss.

Antara cinta dan Suka......

1- Di hadapan orang yang kita cinta, hati kita akan
berdegup kencang. Tapi di hadapan orang yang kita
suka, hati kita akan gembira.

2- Di hadapan orang yang kita cinta, musim
sentiasa berbunga-bunga. Di depan orang yang kita
suka, musim itu cuma berangin sahaja.

3- Jikalau kita lihat di dalam mata orang yang
kita cinta, kita akan kaku. Tapi jika kita melihat
ke dalam mata orang yang kita suka, kita akan
tersenyum.

4- Di depan orang yang kita cinta, kita menjadi
malu. Di depan orang yg kita suka, kita akan
tunjukkan imej yang sebenar.

5- Di depan orang yang kita cinta, lidah kelu untuk
berkata-kata. Di depan orang yang kita suka, kita
akan bebas berkata apa saja.

6- Kita tidak akan merenung mata orang yang kita
cinta. Tapi kita akan selalu merenung mata orang
yang kita suka.

7- Bila orang yang kita cinta menangis, kita akn
turut jua menangis. Bila orang yang kita suka
menangis, kita akan cuba untuk membuat dia gembira.

8- Perasaan cinta bermula dari kata. Perasaan suka
bermula dari telinga. Jadi, jikalau kita berhenti
menyukai seseorang yang kita suka umpama kita
membuang telinga kita. Tapi jika cuba menutup mata
cinta berbuah menjadi airmata. Setiap orang yang
hidup akan mengalami ini dalam hidup mereka.

Pictures of d day!!

xder paper nk post........so post gmbr2 jer.......

mY 'DEar'.........

Sekian lama kita brshbat,

Segala kepercayaan ku berikn kpdmu,

Suka dan duka kukongsikn brsamamu,

Sebagai pengubat duka dan lara,

Ku fikir engkau jujur dan ikhlas,

Berwajah ihsan jika bersua,

Tapi rupanya ku silap,

Semua hanyalh khayalan belaka,

Inikah sahabat???

D dpn laen,

D belakang pun laen,

Apa salahku wahai teman???

Apakan dosaku trhadapmu???

Sehingga kau snggup brbuat demikian trhdpku..

Adakah aku meragut kbahagian mu???

Adakah aku merampas segala yang kau miliki???

Mungkin kau terlalu muda untuk menilai perasaanku..

Betapa sakit dan peritnya luka dlm jiwaku..

Ku siramkn dgn penuh kasih syg..

Namun Aku...

Pernahkh kau fikirkn???

Setiap detik menagih kasih..

Alangkah nkmatnya jika nkmatmu ku miliki..

Akan ku belai dan peliharanya dgn penuh kesyukuran..

Ayuh sahabat..

Sedarlah dr lamunan...

Kebahagian dan kesenangan tdk akan abadi..

Fikirkanlah perasaan org di sekelilingmu...

Semoga engkau dilindungi ALLAH...

Doaku untukmu sentiasa kuberikan...

Agar engkau merasa apa yg ku rasakan...

(until now i'm still seek sumbody who i can share sumthing wit,sumbody who can be near to my heart)

ooOowh.......

On My Mind

I loved him privately
I didn't say what was within me
I don't know what's happening to me when I see his eyes
I no longer knew what to say
I don't know why I hid from him
I'm very weak when I'm beside him
And I submit to him

All the love in this world is in my heart for you
You are the most precious person to me
And my soul is in you
If you are before me my eyes long for you
You're on my mind and you don't know what's happened to me
And the nights are long years to me

Oh my preoccupation with every word you say to me
If the words were indicating some affection
I would say I've loved you for so long
Everyday the desire grows on me
It appeared on my mind and you don't know what's happened to m e

mY BeloVEd Arab-indonesian Family....

here are some story bout my indonesian family...

erm...dunt know where should i start............

actually, i never meet them before untill my first visit to indonesia.......ak just taw yg ak ader family kat surabaya tp xprnh jmper sbb ak xprnh ke sne.........mse muler2 jmper dgn die org.........

OMG........they mcm friendly sgt...........layanan pehh..mcm dh lme jmper...........

xsangker lak............i just been there fr 5 days.........tp rse cm kjap jer........mse kat sne dieorg organised mcm2.........n yg pling happening was mjlis tari-menari tarian tradisional yemen yg d panggl hajir marawish...........best sgt time 2...............nmpk senang jer step die tp klaw dh menari 2..........ssh sgt...........sumer malaysian male family members kne mnari including me.......

my gosh...........malu sgt2 sbb xpndai........then yg pling truk.....sumer org tgk trmsklah yg pmpuan.......then ader 1 ari 2............kteorng rmai2 g highland n kat sne ader family villa on top of highland.......kat sne sjuk cm kat cameron highland...........i stayed there fr 1 nite..........thank GOD stayed kat sne 4 just 1 nite coz ssh nk mndi taw.....sjuk sgt...aper lg erk nk citer........erm..........i really lurve stay there bcoz mcm suasane die calm me down n org2 die sumer baek2.........brng2 pun murah.....byk sceneries yg cntik2.......tenng sgt klaw tgk.......4 yr all information.....sumber air kat tmpt i pg nie(pasuran),ialah mata air.i pg tmpt takungan air 2,air die sgt jernih......biru n sejuk....tp yg pling sdih nyer.........xdpt pg shopping.......trkilan sgt....smpt nk g shopping......lgpun my grup consist of 25 persons....so ssh r nk bwk nk g mne2........klaw g pun,gne mini bus.......mse dok kat sne rse cm xnk blik.....but wat to do.....i cant stay back........i need to finish my stdy.....on d day dat i want to go back....byk drama air mater...sumer nangis2....yg ppling malu.....i yg nangis pling truk....when smpai kat kb......first thing i did was.....discussing dgn my beloved mum klaw2 dpt g lg sne......then after a days........trus bli lg tckt nk g sne...ehh,ltih r typing nie....dh xlarat r.....actually,byk r lg citer best2 psal surabaya nie......xlarat r nk citer sumer.........so if u wanna know more.....just come to my house.......hehehehehe.......2 pun klaw korng nk dtg r........i xkesah....

My seCOND hometown

Hadhramaut(حضرموت)

A historical region of the south Arabian Peninsulaalong the Gulf of Aden in the Arabian Sea, extending eastwards from Yemen (proper) to the borders of the Dhofar region of Oman.The name of the region is currently retained in the smaller Hadhramaut Governorate of the Republic of Yemen. The people of Hadhramaut are called Hadhramis.

Narrowly,Hadhramaut refers to the historical Qu'aiti and Kathiri sultanates, which were in the Aden Protectorate overseen by the British Resident atAden until their abolition upon the independence of South Yemen in 1967. The current governorate of Hadhramaut roughly incorporates the former territory of the two sultanates. It consists of a narrow, arid coastal plain bounded by the steep escarpment of a broad plateau (al-Jol, averaging 1,370 m [4,500 feet]), with a very sparse network of deeply sunk wadis (seasonal watercourses). The undefined northern edge of Hadhramaut slopes down to the desert Empty Quarter.

In a wider sense, Hadhramaut includes the territory of Mahra to the east all the way to the contemporary border with Oman.This encompasses the current governorates of Hadramaut and Mahra in their entirety as well as parts of the Shabwah Governorate.The Hadhramis live in densely built towns centered on traditional watering stations along the wadis. Hadhramis harvest crops of wheat and millet, tend date palm and coconut groves, and grow some coffee. On the plateau, Bedouins tend sheep and goats. Society is still highly tribal, with the old Seyyid aristocracy, descended from Prophet Muhammad, traditionally educated and strict in their Islamic observance and highly respected in religious and secular affairs. Since the early 19th century, large-scale Hadhramaut migration has established sizable Hadhrami minorities in South and South East Asia, namely Hyderabad, Bhatkal, Malabar, Java, Sumatra, Malacca and Singapore.For example, several Indonesian ministers, including former Foreign Minister Ali Alatas and former Finance Minister Mari'e Muhammad are of Hadhrami descent, as is the former Prime Ministerof East Timor Marí Alkatiri. Hadhramis have also settled along the East African coast, and two former ministers in Kenya, Shariff Nasser and Najib Balala, are of Hadhrami descent.